Independence

Having just experienced July 4th, a day commemorating us changing the circumstances to suit us, I was reminded by the conversations among my holiday compatriots that sometimes we can’t.

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Wendy grills up a yogic picnic

ISHTA Yogiraj and founder Alan Finger likens the reality to more of a bargain: you get x% and the universe gets y%. In non-math terms, life is going to hand you circumstances — some overarching, some small — and your job is to use affirmation or whatever plan you have (hopefully yoga), to meet the circumstance with wisdom and grace.

So it’s not that you can’t have what you want or you can have what you want, but rather, as you’re giving it your best, you can see with clarity and act with an eye toward transcending the circumstances to find contentment. That’s independence.

You can’t always get what you want
You can’t always get what you want
You can’t always get what you want
But if you try sometimes, you just might find
You get what you need

~ Mick Jagger & Keith Richards

Sshhhhhh…

I am finally starting to see posts on Facebook that echo what I’ve been saying to the people around me, and I’m glad I’m seeing this approaching swell of sentiment: Enough!

There’s so much chatter, so much documenting, so many self-projections, so much self-marketing. I call it ‘looking at life with an exclamation point attached.’

Some is good, too much is too much. Continue reading “Sshhhhhh…”

Yoga Tube

I got to have an impromptu discussion with my teacher, Yogiraj Alan Finger, at his home in Williamsburg as part of the ISHTA “Ask a Yogiraj” video stream. We cover a lot of ground, including the role of asana, and finding a practice with the help of a teacher.

No Problem

Video Snapshot-4I love language.
I love language that amazes me.
I love language that surprises me.

I hate language that is imprecise.
I hate language that confuses a once clear idea or combines it into something meaningless.

I know the transformation of language is inevitable, like teenagers’ rooms decaying into chaos. (The French tried to combat it with an entire Government office.)

The latest place English has taken a dive is in the simplest of transactions. An example:

A young cashier informs me, “That will be $5.”
I respond as I hand him a fiver, “Here you go.”
The cashier hands me the bag.
I take it from him and say, “Thank you.”
He graciously answers, “No problem.”

If you have young people in your circle of influence, please remind them:

PROBLEM: a difficulty, a challenge, something extra, something one might prefer not to do.
NO PROBLEM: glad to help, it wasn’t really anything.
YOU’RE WELCOME: the reply to thank you.

The slang replacement of ‘you’re welcome’ with ‘no problem’ has a rich history that includes situations such as these replies to ‘thank you!’:

      • a gangster who just spared a mark his life;
      • a bargain hunter who just got a super deal that was unadvertised; or
      • a kid who stopped to help a woman whose groceries spilled on the sidewalk.

Let’s keep ‘no problem’ for those special occasions, and just say ‘you’re welcome’ the rest of the time!

James Salter

a poem

I know you learn the right thing when it’s the right time…
but I feel I’ve missed out.
While I’m glad I knew Beckett,
and Hemingway was an inspiration,
and D.Foster Wallace was a revelation,
on top of the many must-knows who came before;
no one bothered to tell me to read
these lines,
each one
light years beyond
what passes for
language.

shifting gears

I started a new story, because I had to keep from tinkering with my new novel while it was being edited. Now I have the edits, so I need to put down the new story. Sheesh! These are the kind of problems to have!

Human Interaction

I just drove to Saratoga Springs for the day to talk with someone who had already e-mailed me comprehensive feedback on a project. I got a ton of information from the line edits of my new novel, and my friend, author Lâle Davidson, wrote a very clear summary of her overall impressions.

So why did I drive for seven hours with Mica in the back seat and the nagging feeling that I should be sitting in Brooklyn being productive? It’s because my in-person interactions with Lâle are so inspiring. There’s an energy about face-to-face dialog that provides nuance to information and the real-time interaction allows fine-tuning of understanding. Continue reading “Human Interaction”

Tweet Poem

Stop; inhale, exhale; notice the inhale, the exhale; notice the moment between the inhale, the exhale; now go do something inspired…

Philosophy word for the day: Mantra

In my recent workshop for yoga teachers, How to Teach Philosophy and Meditation in Asana Class, I posted a list on the wall of Sanskrit words that I find make good vocabulary for sharing ideas in class. I’m going to define them over the next weeks, so keep posted. Here’s the Intro Post for this series.

Today’s word is mantra.

Mantra is a technique for altering one’s consciousness. The word itself means ‘mind liberation/transformation,’ and works on the mind with the mind itself. Explicitly, mantra is the repeating of sound or words, usually in Sanskrit, a language with carefully tuned vibrational sound (see the second bullet). Mantra works on several levels: Continue reading “Philosophy word for the day: Mantra”

Philosophy word for the day: Avidya

In my recent workshop for yoga teachers, How to Teach Philosophy and Meditation in Asana Class, I posted a list on the wall of Sanskrit words that I find make good vocabulary for sharing ideas in class. I’m going to define them over the next couple of weeks, so keep posted. Here’s the Intro Post for this series.

Today’s word is avidya.

Avidya is a negation of the word, vidya, which means knowledge. Avidya, therefore means ‘not knowledge.’ As with most things in yoga, however, the kind of knowledge is pretty all-encompassing, that is, it’s not about knowledge of the A-B-C’s or knowledge of how to bake a pie. Avidya is the opposite of knowing the nature of who we are. It is often translated as “ignorance,” but as I stated in the  Intro Post for this series, one-word translations of Sanskrit almost always leave out significant information. Continue reading “Philosophy word for the day: Avidya”